whatever.

at one point in my life i thought i knew things. now i know i don't

yesysabella:

algrenion:

colinfrth:

myrdas:

colinfrth:

Behind the Scenes of “All About That Bass” +

How are skinny girls supposed to feel love when your song is about loving only fat bodies?

I’m sorry, but how are fat girls supposed to feel when every advertisement, be it on television or in a magazine, when nearly every movie, shows only thin women? I am completely against body shaming, but the fact remains that there is very little positive representation for bigger girls. Thin women are considered the norm and are far more accepted and you see them everywhere you look in the media. So please, don’t take this the wrong way, but please just let me have a song that makes me, for once, feel good about my body.

ive also noticed that people always focus on one particular line of this song which apparently makes it “skinny shaming”

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but nobody ever acknowledges the following lines?

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the main theme of the song is giving love to larger women because larger women are so commonly shamed for their bodies, ignored by the media and generally given less love and acceptance than thinner women, but the song in its entirety is a message that all women are beautiful. People are failing to acknowledge that

Please, if you take issue with this song have it be about how to caters to the male gaze (“Cause I got that boom boom that all the boys chase”, “boys they like a little more booty to hold at night”), or how it fetishizes/sexualizes black women using them as a prop.

those special moments

when you are laying in bed and you cannot decide between ordering a pizza and eating it in bed while watching twin peaks OR leaving the house to socialize. but really who wants to socialize with this olde bag ‘o’ bones anyways. my friends in the mountains of twin peaks always make time for me.

so…..

We can all agree that the worse part of break up life is the people who ask where your ex partner is. And its the people who already know and are really weird and don’t say anything.

I guess its all the people.

My single life

Is a whole lot of me talking to my dogs. And trying real hard to keep hydrated.

today I power clash. because patriarchy says to match. 

this photo brought to you by the dark dark dark circles under my eyes forever.

today I power clash. because patriarchy says to match. 

this photo brought to you by the dark dark dark circles under my eyes forever.

Need Couch - Tampa, Fl

transhousingnetwork:

transhousingnetwork:

Hey. I’m a 21 year old non-binary person (Faab if it matters) in need of a place to stay for a while. In Tampa is best, but I will take nearby areas as well.

I can no longer stay where I am currently, and don’t have much money. I do work one…

does anyone that follows me live in Tampa??

feeling

real sad right now. does anyone else ever feel like….when someone that you are with does something that makes you so upset and not able to trust them you should break up? or its like….you love this person so much…..accept even the terrible things they do? what do you do? because maybe you can stay together and get over the thing. but probably you will just grow really hostile towards each other. but the world might end in like 3 hours. i don’t want to be sad when that happens. 

like do you stay together so that some part of you can be happy? do you? do you? do you?

i guess when you fall in love real hard all the times you get fucked all the times too. 

So today,

someone asked me if I went to school to become a receptionist. Why yes, that school was called: waste a ton of money at UCF to get a completely useless degree. But i suppose they are all useless in the grand scheme right? Because fuck academia. And fuck debt. And fuck having to pay money to get ahead in life. 

So, August 24 and 25 come see beautiful people take their clothes off! At Will’s Pub. Be there or we will start rumors that you are a prude. @polylust  #polylust #sassy #burlseque #queerlesque #cumcumcum

So, August 24 and 25 come see beautiful people take their clothes off! At Will’s Pub. Be there or we will start rumors that you are a prude. @polylust #polylust #sassy #burlseque #queerlesque #cumcumcum